Disconnect 40: Why saving money at 40 is an uphill climb

It isn’t often that you are met with a money statistic that is alarming in a good way.

This one is a real eye opener and is totally underscored with positivity when it comes to saving money and being able to have the most optimistic eyes for the future.

More than half of the population in their early 30s is budgeting how much they make, what they spend and have a generally good grasp on their money.

This, of course, is a radical departure from what we’re told about money and being able to save it overall as Americans. About 50 percent of the population has zero dollars in a savings account and admit they couldn’t afford to take care of an emergency should it crop up, whether it’s a home repair or a car that is on the fritz.

But leave it to the younger generation to start reversing the trend.

Or, so we think?

The latter stat, the one about the zero dollars in the average saving account, takes into consider all ages, so the question remains: if the early 30 crowd is doing so well, why is our average so bad when it comes to saving money?
The answer really lies on the transition from early 30s to mid to late 30s and beyond, most notably the 40 something crowd. If you’re 32 years old, for example, and you’re living modestly and sticking to a budget and saving money, what changes in the next decade or so.

Perhaps having children, getting married, buying a home, moving for a new job or other life changing events alters how you feel about money and, more specifically, your lack of being able to save and propensity in turn to borrow.

The average household carries nearly $25,000 in unsecured debt, and a good portion of that is made up of the 40 plus year old crowd.

Could it be possible that the savvy, astute 30 something year old crowd in their youth lived below their means but then did a complete 180 when it came to money as a result of family, marriage and home buying.

If you’re in your early 30s and you had a used car (no car payment or you valued a lower priced vehicle versus a car payment) and you had rent that was feasible if not a steal, why wouldn’t you stick to the used car mentality and buy a first or even second home that was far under the total amount you were approved for?

Just because your life changes doesn’t mean your thoughts on money, budgeting and living under a certain expense number should. That first house after marriage can be a starter and ender at the right price. A few kids doesn’t mean you have to invest in a $50,000 mini van when a used one still has enough space, bells and even whistles to suffice.

The money mentality should remain constant, even if nothing else really does.

Success Plan: How to know if you’re doing right by your money

Success and failure are a fine line, and money in that regard is no different.

For some, success as it relates to money and saving it could be something as simple as how much you make, having a handsome income and, for the most part, keeping your expense to a minimum.

Other will argue that success is how much you have in your bank account and the ability to budget and save, regardless of your income.

And what about other aspects of money such as a financial plan or retirement fund?

As you can see, money and success have a lot of different avenues. Failure also isn’t far off if any one of those are lagging.

So how exactly do you know if you’re financially successful and at least have all the eggs in the right basket so you can save money and flourish, versus the alternative and that’s no money saved and living from one paycheck to another.

The two most important aspects of your finances and saving money: financial plan and budgeting. The planning and budgeting run hand in hand, and the real driver behind both is having goals and making sure they’re spelled out in black and white. Far too often, individuals have these great intentions and want to have more money in the bank and a better retirement set up but it’s only idle chatter and no pen was ever put to paper, and thus nothing happens.

And a lot of that goes back to an earlier point about having a nice sized income but yet nothing to show for it. They assume that having a lot of income means you don’t have to think about having a financial plan or budget and that you have a “good idea” that you’re out ahead of the game.

Chances are, you’re not.

The budgeting piece speaks for itself. You can’t spend what you don’t have and that’s when you get into credit card issues. Budgeting means you know what you have to (not want or need) pay for and then whatever is leftover can be dealt into your savings account and make sure you have some money for entertainment expenses or to simply have fun.

If you’re debt free and only have a few thousand dollars in your savings account, does that make you any less worse off than someone with $20,000 in debt with $10,000 in their savings account? The difference between success and failure truly is in the eye of the person, but if you’re budgeting to the point where you can put money aside and your credit is managed well and you have a 70 to 30 split in favor of income versus

Save Drivers: What to avoid in order to save money

The principle behind saying money is ironic given the world we live in today.

You’re consistently urged to save, spend wisely and learn how to live without, separating wants from needs at the blink of an eye.

Counter productive to that are credit cards and offers flying under your nose, mortgages being given away with little or no interest and plenty of incentives for simply spending money you don’t have, whether it’s a holiday sale that temps your wallet or the latest and greatest, newest and bright and shiny product that you convince yourself you have to have.

Sure, you can argue willpower to the tenth degree, and you’d be right to assume that saying “no” truly is the best way to combat this downward spending spiral you’re in, but what if you really don’t know what’s bad for you money wise.

What if you’ve convinced yourself that needs are always good, and can’t be underestimated or reconfigured?
Case in point, do you really need that larger than life house and a few thousand dollar mortgage when those five bedrooms and three baths simply look good on paper? Just because you’re approved for a huge house and an even bigger payment doesn’t mean you always have to cash in on that particular dollar amount.

Even your wardrobe may be hindering you and your ability to save money. The phrase “dress to impress” wasn’t pulled out of thin air, but instead it holds significant meaning to someone who is buying clothing that is far too expensive that they want but really don’t need. That doesn’t mean you can’t treat yourself to a new, fine suit or a dress that is to die for, but that shouldn’t be an every week or month endeavor.

Finally, if you’re someone who has to have the latest and greatest and the next model or the first of something, chances are very good that you’re spending too much and excessively without thinking it through first. While it’s always a plus to have something no one else does or to be the first in your neighborhood with a particular product, you’re also not allowing for prices on these products to go down organically over a period of time. An HDTV was about $1700 10 years ago for a 40-inch model; today it’s the same quality and light’s out picture quality for about $300. If you can’t wait, you’ll always overpay.

Avoiding spending is impossible but it’s not hard to sidestep using your money for things you don’t need and thus will always end up saving in the face of a price tag that is too high and totally unnecessary.

Not so Fast: How to tell if you’re ready to retire

When you start getting close to retirement age, you might be overcome with just a tad bit of nerves as you plan to say so long to working for good.

But if you’re not ready to retire that sentiment might have to be changed to saying so long to work for now, since you might find yourself back to work after your retire too soon and thus run out of income or money saved.

That scenario is the most feared by all individuals who have retirement in mind, so pulling that proverbial trigger on retiring often is met with fear and a sense that no time is really good enough. Now, if you have employed a financial advisor or someone to watch your money grow, help you invest it, and they’re giving you remarkable advice and assure you that you’re time is right, then so be it.

That timing might be on point since a good financial planner is going to ask you what you need to live on after you retire and, for instance, if you want to have enough money to travel nine months out of the year after you’re 62, then disclosing that allows the planner to build the retirement that is right for you.

Not having a financial plan is really the first sign that you’re not really ready to retire because, quite frankly, you’re not thinking about it the way you should be. A financial plan really is your path from the working world into your golden years with a transition that is smooth and won’t be met with going back to work after 10 or 15 years retired.

Retirement also is something you view as the most opportune time to actually quit working. If you bought a new house at 50 or you have some other major financial responsibility, you certainly can work that into your retirement plan but it certainly makes it much more challenging to budget and have a plan that works when you have much more financial responsibility as you reach 60.

And that includes debt you might be carrying. Some individuals will take out a home equity loan on a house that is paid off to take care of debt and thus have that one home equity payment and nothing more, but if your debt is significant and can’t be solved in a way that eliminates it or gets it under control, you might want to focus your last decade of working on paying down as much debt as possible.

Retiring is a big step, and one that shouldn’t be entered into lightly or at a pace that isn’t on point with where you are financially.

Hole Numbers: Best ways to cut bloated budgets to help save

If you have a budget, that’s great. If you have a budget, and you use it, even better. And if you don’t have one, you should get one soon.

As in now.

Budgeting is the difference between those who can save and those who have no idea why they can’t amass dollar one in a savings account or even think about retirement on the simplest levels.

And even if you do have a budget, the success of it depends solely on if you actually follow it or if it’s more window dressing and dreaming than actual reality of your financial situation. Budgeting has to be specific, and to the last dollar where you don’t overlook anything, even the most inconsequential expenses.

And here’s one rule about budgeting that often is overlooked, for those who have it and use it properly: it’s a constantly changing entity.

That means you should be budgeting and adjusting and altering your budget when you have the opportunity or at least every so often to make sure you really are saving as much as possible. What the general public tends to overlook is a budget that is bloated in some ways or, at the very least, revisiting and revising what you’re paying for certain products or services.

For starters, you should be checking rates every year, whether you’re thinking about transferring debt or perhaps just questioning how much you’re paying for car insurance, home owners insurance or anything of that ilk. Some even make it a point to lower the interest rate on their home or are continually shopping for better rates on anything in their lives that is tied to a percentage point.

Beyond your interest rates or what you’re paying for your utilities and other bills, you can’t overlook things such as cable television, phone service, grocery bills and even something as arbitrary as a gym membership.

As for the membership, you might be able to cut your rate in half based on frequency and what you’re doing. Some facilities are as little as $10 per month, and if that suffice what you need, then why not switch?

Cable television is slowly being affected by streaming services that cost a fraction, such as Netflix, Hulu and Sling. And if you’re overpaying for data from a larger carrier, think smaller since most networks are basically the same. So if you’re not traveling to Japan for work, you might want to cut that bill in half and save on the extras, such as data plans you’re paying for when unlimited is the wave of the future.

No one is suggesting that budgeting is easy, but the hard part comes from those who ignore theirs once it’s written on paper. Instead, think about altering it and fine tuning it always, to further engage in your finances and save the kind of money that makes a difference.

Simple techniques: Why quick scan of budget could produce plenty of savings

The average budget is, well, average.

And by using the term “average,” you describe a budget exactly as the word itself would be defined.

Just OK.

Most of what holds back the average budget is the lack of attention to detail most put on it, specifically only focusing on the big ticket items, your car, house, school loan and other larger scale items and forgetting how small, incidental expenses are also costing you plenty of money.

But even beyond not accounting for your $2,000 per year coffee habit or the $5,000 you’re spending on lunch alone every day on your work break, you should really consider scanning your budget, taking the proverbial “fine tooth” comb and really finding even more ways to save on expenses and thus save money in the form of a savings account or nest egg for those unexpected costs.

When was the last time you perused your budget, really looked it over?

Did you happen to notice that elephant in the room in the form of your cable bill, costing you nearly $3,000 per year for television and internet? In today’s marketplace, you can get away with having entertainment of that same variety for a fraction of that cost. Traditional cable already is feeling tremendous pressure from streaming services, but if you take the time to do the research, you’ll find other alternatives to cable and satellite dish as well.

An extra $1,000 saved per year means another $20,000 if you decide to retire in 20 years. Simple math but yet such a hard time cutting that cable cord.

And when you’re done with saying so long to satellite or cable, you might want to take a look in your bedroom closet or wherever you keep your clothes. Now, this isn’t to suggest you should stop shopping altogether but rather rethink how you shop.

As much as you want to by the most perfect, pristine sweater in October just before the cold weather hits, consider buying clothes in the offseason months, and save that sweater buy for April and grab those shorts and tank tops in September. If you’re overly concerned with style, you can rest assured that doing this isn’t going to set you back fashion wise by more than a few mere months.

Your budget is only as good as the person running it, and that means making tough decisions. In the case of cutting the fat, that should be fairly easy when you consider what it is and how much you’re going to save.

Boost Mobile: How to get your credit score quickly moving in right direction

Your credit score is the life blood of not only how you’re viewed by lenders but also if you’re going to be afforded loans for things that you want and need: cars, schooling, house, etc.

So the question is quite simple: Is your credit score on life support?

To answer that question, you have to know what it is first, and foremost.

Knowing your score can give you a good idea of a starting point and ultimately where you want to go from there. Getting your score also allows you to make sure it’s accurate, as you wouldn’t be the first person to suffer from some sort of mistake that is not in your favor and thusly is dragging down that three digit number.

If all the information and debt is accurate, then it’s time to go to work on building that score back up again, and this time for good.

But if you’re fretting because you believe that your score and raising it is going to take considerable amount of time, you’re right.

And wrong.

You can start breathing life into your score by only doing a few simple things.

In addition to checking your score for accuracy, you also want to begin a better management system for your debt, specifically paying down current debt. To do that correctly in order to better manage your credit score, check your balance to credit limit ratio and start there.

That means if you have a current balance that is extremely close to your actual limit, you’ll want to focus on that right away, because if that is the case, creditors assume that you’re essentially “maxing out” all your available credit.

The flip side of that process is the thought that you want to close your unused credit cards, but that only hurts your chances of improving your score. Think about it, if you have credit cards with high balances that are right up your limit, then closing accounts that have zero balances on them is only going to make your debt utilization look worse.

Finally, if this pertains to you and how you pay bills, you want to immediately do one thing: stop paying your credit cards late. Every time you go beyond 30 days of unpaid balances, you will be sent to collections. Even late payments on credit cards are noted and will negatively affect your account and standing with your current lenders.

The best course of action is to pay at least the minimum payment just to avoid missing, since something is better than nothing pertains to this situation.

Your score might not be where you want it, but that doesn’t mean you can’t adjust slightly how you’re currently managing your debt to start climbing back to financial respectability.

Easily Found: How make obviously smart money moves

Sometimes, we make saving money much more complicated than it needs to be.

What tends to happen is a propensity to avoid money moves that we know are advisable and easy, and instead opt for the path of more resistance. Ironically, that path is perceived to be much easier when in actuality it causes quite the concern once it is executed.

Simply put, some money movies are really smart and very obvious but we still go against the proverbial grain in that regard.

Take for instance credit cards.

Why do we use them constantly when they were truly designed for only emergencies or something more practical like buying something online. If you’re buying online, you want to use a credit card for security purposes. We certainly get that mindset, but you can’t do that without knowing you can pay the bill within 30 days so as to not face any large interest charges.

Generally speaking, credit cards are bad news and only should be used as the absolute last means of paying for anything. The bigger misstep is using a credit card to pay a bill, charge a vacation or to buy groceries or other day to day items that you should be buying with just cash in your bank account (i.e. your own money).

Often living beyond your means is brought to the forefront of discussion points when you talk about money mistakes. The smart move is to buy modest when it comes to your two biggest purchases: house and car. What we tend to do is buy an expensive car or too much house, and that equates to higher payments, higher insurance payments and premiums and just more money spent in general, money that would do better in your bank account rather than being tied up in a $60,000 car that you don’t need or a half a million dollar house that is too big for just you. The mistake is buying and biting off more than you can chew just because you’re approved for a certain amount when that is only a best scenario to give you an idea of what you can afford, while some take it as the one and only number they have to hit.

Finally, you simply need to make retiring a priority and that means saving for it, especially if your company is practically handing you the easiest of paths to get from hard worker to secure retiree.

When a money decision seems like it’s a no brainer, chances are it is. Those are the ones you want to spot and react the right way, rather than fall victim to wasteful and wishful thinking financially.

Road Closed: Are you headed for financial disaster?

Money is always a unique element of your daily life in that you often fall into a comfort level, assuming that all is well when in actuality you’re headed in the wrong direction. In some cases, you’re teetering on the brink of breaking the bank wide open, and not in a good way.

That “comfort level” includes paying the minimum payment on all your credit accounts, yet still charging to the that same card, or continuing to live paycheck to paycheck and not being able to save money. Those are just a few of the pratfalls that could easily continue and thus lead you to financial ruin in a short amount of time.

The minimum payment, still opening up new lines of credit or charging to the same cards is a huge red flag when it comes to your finances being porous. If you’re paying $150 on a credit card and charging another $100, you’re ahead $50 but once you track the interest at about 10 to 15 percent, you’re breaking even ever month. That lineage hardly works toward lowering your debt and being able to save money in the process. Furthermore, some still open up more lines of credit and debt, even though they aren’t putting a dent in any other loans they have. You’re debt to income ratio starts to go from the wanted 70 to 30 ratio to more like 50 to 50, which is going to make getting a loan for the important things (home improvement, schooling, medical expenses, etc.) even more difficult.

You also can’t overlook not being able to pay your bills on time and being harassed by companies with past due notices and other warnings of that ilk, and you simply don’t do anything to stop the calls and just ignore the problem, hoping it will go away.

In actuality, taking on credit and debt head on is your best course of action, simply because a lot of debt collectors and companies will work with you on a settlement that will allow you to pay potentially half of that debt off just to settle it.

One of the worst parts of your finances and almost as bad as making minimum payments and yet still charging is borrowing money from the people you know, whether that’s your parents, cousins, aunts and uncles or just about anyone else you can think of that is considered family. Co workers often could even get in the mix, and doing this not only strains relationships but also could potentially lead to a complete dilution altogether, where you don’t speak to the party that loaned you the money.

Managing your finances the right way takes two things: eyes wide open and being able to realize when things are getting really bad.

Food for Thought: How to save money at restaurants

If you had to pick one spot, one location or one place of business or service you spend most of your extra income, what would you choose?
The shoppers of the world might select malls, department stores and other places that do an outstanding job marketing their clothing to you as if you can’t live without it. Others might opt for most of their disposable income finding its way right to your stomach.

And by that, you’re talking about the propensity to spend money eating out at restaurants, something that can account for thousands of dollars in money spent that you wish you could have back the moment that last bite or sip is taken.

The truth is most financial experts and advocates will tell you that you should eating out at all costs, and the numbers certainly suggest that. If you eat dinner out, just yourself, three times per week and the average check is $20, you’re likely to spend nearly $3,000 per year just on restaurant dining. When you add that to your grocery bill, you are essentially paying for food twice: the food in your fridge and the food you’re ordering in or taking out, for starters.

Now as much as you want to say so long to restaurant or fast food dining for good, that isn’t realistic, and those same experts that tell you to give eating out the boot are the ones that also will suggest that budgeting should be realistic.

So, now what?

You might want to think about limiting the amount of time you spend eating out at restaurants, but if you must eat out for lunch or dinner, then you certainly can do so with saving money in mind. There are plenty of ways to save money on food in restaurants, starting with promotional sites and other online forums that give you a special two for $20 or some other dining experience where the pricing is cut in half.

Even better is skipping the expensive drink or dessert, and instead focusing the meal itself. And, as much as you’re in the restaurant because you’re hungry, you’re also inclined to visit that spot for socialization as well. So if you’re just tagging along after work or with a group of friends, you might want to consider eating before you go. That way, you’re inclined to get a drink, small appetizer rather than break the bank on the dinner menu.

Eating out is convenient, but doesn’t have to be completely off limits due to its cost. It can be done without spending a small fortune if you’re making it part of your budget or doing so with frugality in mind.